A twice-weekly support group for mums with pre-school-aged children. This setting is unique: it offers mums a safe space to express, reflect upon and address their needs, whilst their children are cared for by our trained play leader and team of experienced volunteers.
The mums’ group session is confidential and facilitated by a fully trained psychotherapist. Mums are asked to commit to attending sessions both on a Tuesday and Friday in order to maximise the benefit to both their child and themselves.
“The Friends of the Family [mums and under 5s] group dynamic is as important as the counselling itself as it provides a support network, practical solutions to everyday problems and a sense of not being alone.”
“I come in twice a week and I feel like I have a home. Friends of the Family feels like my second family; they watch the children grow up and the mums bloom and I couldn’t ask for a better group to be at.”
Within the group session, mums explore issues impacting upon their abilities as parents and seek to resolve their difficulties with support from the psychotherapist and other mums. They are encouraged to recognise and understand personal patterns of behaviour, respect and learn from other mums who may be experiencing similar issues, and take practical steps to overcome their challenges. Mums are also introduced to relaxation techniques, mindfulness, and ways of managing stress and developing strategies to cope with extremes of emotions.
Mums can also be referred to our complementary counselling services if it’s felt they would benefit from extra one-to-one support.
Play sessions are carefully planned and run by the play leader and volunteers. As a result, babies and children under five years old:
Additional trips and activities for families are organised, and monthly group lunches are also held to encourage mums and children to socialise together.
Mums with children under the age of five and who may be experiencing:
When a referral is made, the Mums and under 5s Manager arranges a home visit to discuss the needs of both mum and child. If our service is right for the family, following a settling in period for mum and child, mum then commits to participating in group sessions on Tuesdays and Fridays, 10-12noon.
Initially, the Play Leader and volunteers encourage a mum to settle her child into the group’s play routine. Mums are asked to sign a confidentiality agreement before then joining the therapeutic group during the Tuesday session. On Fridays, children and mums come together in the play room where they can develop the skills of child-led play. For consistency it is important that mums and their children attend both Tuesday and Friday mornings.