Volunteer stories

Julie’s story

Julie, a retired local teacher, has supported four different children since she became a volunteer befriender six years ago! We asked her about her befriending role and her top tips if you are considering joining our amazing team.

What do the children gain from having a Befriender?

• Someone to listen to them and to discuss their worries and concerns with.
• Someone to trust and rely on.
• Someone looking out for them and devoting their time just to that child.

What are your best memories of Befriending?

• Seeing the children happy and carefree in the moment.
• Helping the children to feel safe and talk about their worries.
• Enjoying the simple things such as going to the beach, walking the dog or playing in the park.

Julie’s advice to potential volunteers:

Don’t worry about what you aren’t able to offer. Instead, think about how your time could benefit a child. Volunteers can expect fantastic training, amazing ongoing support and a great community, giving real purpose to what you are doing.

Jamie’s story

Jamie was new to befriending and, after completing his training, was matched with Luke who he meets weekly and has developed a great relationship with.

Some of their best times are spent outdoors in nature

Jamie and Luke love to spend time outdoors, going to the park or just playing and chatting. It’s a great bonding experience for them both, and being in nature can help reduce stress and improve confidence and physical health.

Over time, Jamie has seen Luke grow in confidence

This is what Jamies says:

“Our relationship has developed really well. Luke is not the chattiest child but we communicate well and I have got to know what he likes to do”

“He seems more confident and last week he gave me a wave goodbye, which really boosted my confidence in our relationship”

Jamie appreciates the benefits of giving his time as a Befriender for his own wellbeing

“Thinking about someone other than just yourself gives you a real boost. I love being involved with Friends of the Family. It feels like a family and that you are really making a difference”

The simple things are the best

Volunteering with us is all about giving your time to help a child to flourish and see a more positive future.